Are you a Student or Victim?

When I work with clients, I find there are often two views that come up within the conversations I have with them. They often talk about things from a victim perspective or student perspective. When we do have this conversation we work on making a list of the differences between the two. Victims Think often about the injustice they experienced... Blame others for the consequence of the choices they made... Feel sorry for themselves... Believe they are unique and no one else could understand... Tend to be a more negative in their world view... Often don’t listen to others Continue to repeat the mistakes of the past Students Learn from their choices Listen to others for new options to old prob