Monthly Archives: May 2020

I don’t care what you think!

People simply don’t know how to disagree well. They try, but they get nervous…upset…. feel threatened. Whatever it is, they stop the argument by stating that they don’t care what you think. This can be hurtful to hear, but it doesn’t REALLY mean they don’t care, it DOES mean something else. I talk about it […]

Spice up your relationship

Now when you read something about “spicing” up your relationship what are you thinking? Most people think sex life or bedroom advice. This has nothing to do with either. What this does have to do with is making your communication better. This is even more important during everyone’s various stay home orders. You are probably […]

Do you feel manipulated?

Parents often tell me that they feel manipulated by their kids. Usually it’s related to something their child wants or doesn’t want to to do. These “conversations” often turn into battles of wills. Sometimes the parents win and sometimes the kids win. Ultimately, if you don’t change anything you do, there are no winners. There […]